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Saturday, August 27, 2022

Abolish, woman the weaker gender

Time has come to abolish the narrative that woman is a weaker gender. Women are matching men in every field often leaving men behind. But the sad reality is that the courts & laws are being used by women as tools not just to impose their power/will on men but to extort money as well. Extortion is rampant especially in matrimonial cases. Merely based on allegations wheels of justice system are set in motion in favor of women and scant regard is paid to merit. Courts are also more than happy to play to the gallery and continue to treat women as weaker section/gender.

            Idea that it is the responsibility of man/husband to maintain woman/wife must be nipped in the bud in contemporary times. Instead, at best discussion should be around limited support to non-working woman/wife until she becomes independent within a specific time limit. All maintenance laws in favor of women must be reinterpreted to reflect the same. This is beyond imagination that a wife who accepts being involved in adultery can still walk away with maintenance support by claiming she was involved in occasional adultery. So is the fact that courts are misinterpreting laws allowing disgruntled wife to live in a house she never lived in as long as it belongs to husband or relative of husband. To make men responsible to maintain women forever is an absolute injustice being meted out to them. Decision after Decision it is clear that merit is set aside and decisive factor is if party who approached the court is woman. In fact, core objective of every law which is to be fair is being repurposed to suit the narrative that women are a weaker section of society, hence deserve special treatment in law, and are at same pedestal as children.

            In the rush to favor women, policies/laws are such resulting in giving power to women, instead of empowering them, which is being abused thoroughly against men. Narrative that women are weaker section is so intrinsic to our society/law that they are often let go without any punishment even after proven false allegations by them, resulting in no fear of law in them. Misuse of rape law is rampant to destroy agency of man and make him slave. As per 2020 NCRB data almost 50% of Rape cases filed by women were under the category “Sex on the Pretext of Marriage” in which woman claims that male partner promised marriage to have sex with  then did not fulfil the promise. Most of these cases are filed on the whims and fancies of disgruntled women and clearly show first they can play card of “agency of woman” and when things don’t work out then card of downtrodden and weaker. Above all even if findings of the courts are that women filed false cases, however heinous,  they are either let go without any punishment or simple rap on the knuckle. No man can claim to be untouched by onslaught of women. Not only poor and common men, but lawyers, doctors, engineers, politicians, MLAs, MPs, IAS officers, IPS Officers, Judges etcetera  are impacted. Victim men are left with no other option but to lead a suffocating life or die by suicide and for men in India getting married is almost like a crime committed by them consequences of which they must suffer.

            This blogger would end by stating that it is often said law is fluid and reflects realities of society. Hence, it would not be wrong if law starts treating women at par with men instead of treating them weak in contemporary times. Presumption that woman is right and man is wrong must be obliterated from all the laws in favor of women effectively against men. Persons making proven false allegations must be dealt with iron hand as per law. Finally, attempt in maintenance cases filed by women claiming to be destitute should be to make them independent but dependent forever. 

MRA TIKLOO

www.menwelfare.in

www.saveindianfamily.in

Tuesday, March 8, 2022

Battle Royale - Feminist Versus MRA

Finally, judgement has been reserved and fate of "Men of India" sealed. Intervening NGOs – Men Welfare Trust (MWT) and HaridyaNFH – representing "Men of India", effectively argued through their learned counsels J. Sai Deepak and Raj Kumar Kapoor respectively, against removal of Exception 2 to s. 375 IPC (Rape Law). Arguments/Averments were presented in front of special bench of Delhi High Court constituted to hear PIL praying to bring non-consensual sex by husband on his wife under the ambit of Rape Law meaning removal of Exception 2. Govt. of India (GOI), main respondent, for political reasons pushed the can down the road and refused to take any stand. Govt. of Delhi through its counsel though initially opposed, with full force, removal of Exception 2, inviting appreciation from men of country, but after the judgement was reserved requested its submissions be not considered. Last minute stand of Govt. of Delhi, unprecedented in every sense, may be due to back channel understanding with feminists or fear of feminists resulting in cold feet on the part of Govt. of Delhi. Nevertheless, men especially Men's Rights Activists (MRAs) could not be more ecstatic as it resulted in Feminists and MRAs coming face to face in a constitutional court, wait of many years was finally over.


If history is of any indication, when men got embroiled in a battle brought to their doorsteps and their pride was at stake, they fought to win. This blog is an attempt to capture excerpts from final submissions, all encompassing, of learned counsel J. Sai Deepak representing Men Welfare Trust (MWT). The excerpts/final submissions represent a thought process countering “Constitution of India is feminist”. Further, they form weapons of men in instant battle and all future battles against feminists.


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That said, the issue at hand is not merely about consent, but also about context which the Petitioners refuse to see or acknowledge. The multi-layered and multi-variable nature of this equation has been reduced to the sole issue of “consent” which is precisely where the Petitioners and the Intervenor disagree. 


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A. That the prayers sought by the Petitioners are beyond the scope of any jurisdiction or power that this Hon’ble Court may wield under any law or the highest law, namely the Constitution, since if such prayers were granted, they would have the effect of creating a new class/species of offence, which is beyond the pale of the power of judicial review. In short, the prayers sought by the Petitioners require this Hon’ble Court to violate one of the most fundamental, sacrosanct and basic features of the Constitution, namely the doctrine of separation of powers and that too in the matter of criminalisation;


B. That the doctrine of separation of powers is not meant to be a mere transactional construct for division of territory/turf between the various organs, but is meant to preserve the right of the “Republic”, meaning the people, to participate in law and policy-making, lest it becomes the preserve of the few.


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D. That in view of the submissions of both Learned amici which lean in favour of the Petitioners’ position, in the interest of balance and from the perspective of natural justice, inputs ought to have been sought from an additional amicus. In this regard, attention of this Hon’ble Court is drawn to the fact that there have been instances wherein two amici representing divergent positions have been appointed by the Hon’ble Supreme Court to assist it on matters of constitutional significance.


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E. That contrary to the Petitioner’s contention, Exception 2 to Section 375 does not in any manner envisage or require a wife to submit to forced sex by the husband nor does it encourage the husband to impose himself on the wife. Also, it is untrue that there are no remedies whatsoever to address non-consensual sex between spouses. A clear reading of Sections 376B of the IPC along with Section 198B of the CrPC, Section 498A of the IPC and the Domestic Violence Act would clearly show that there is a clear legislative intent behind them and there exists a framework to criminally prosecute a husband who refuses to respect consent;

 

F. That the legislature through the Exception 2 to Section 375 of the IPC and through the creation of a separate legal ecosystem for dealing with spousal sexual violence has indeed criminalised it, without terming it “rape” within the meaning Section 375 of the IPC. The said distinction in labelling and treatment, which is grounded in respect for the complexity of the institution of marriage and not ‘patriarchy’, is both reasonable and based on intelligible differentia, thereby satisfying the touchstones of Articles 14, 15, 19 and 21;


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H. That arguendo the existing legal framework that criminalises spousal sexual violence is indeed inadequate, inadequacy does not constitute unconstitutionality, and it is certainly not for the Judiciary to remedy it since it falls within the exclusive preserve of the Legislature. The Judiciary and that too only the Hon’ble Supreme Court under Article 141, and no High Court under 226, can fill in a legal void or address obvious lacunae. Neither is this Hon’ble Court exercising jurisdiction under Article 141 (since it cannot), nor does the instant case involve a legal void or an obvious lacuna;


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the exhortation by the Petitioners to conform to such “international norms and standards” reeks of coloniality and goes against the grain of their own submission that Exception 2 to Section 375 is less constitutional since it is “colonial”. In other words, the Petitioners’ position on what is ‘colonial’ and what is “international” is selective, convenient and constitutionally fallacious; 


L. That even going by the Petitioners’ erroneous call to authority citing “international norms and standards”, the movement the world over has been towards gender-neutral laws in the realm of sexual violence. And yet, the irony of the case at hand is that the Intervenor which is named Men Welfare Trust has been actively campaigning for gender-neutral laws and preservation of the institution of marriage, whereas the Petitioners have sought gender-specific prayers and creation of a gender specific offence at the expense of the marital institution; 


M. That in view of several judgements of High Courts and the Supreme Court recognising the extent of abuse of existing provisions such as Section 498A of the IPC by alleged victims, the law on sexual violence itself needs an overhaul, introduction of gender-neutrality being but one aspect of it. To add to this crucible by striking down Exception 2 to Section 375 would be to add to existing inequities and injustice.


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At best, a Court of law can prod the Legislature into expediting the process of consultation and legislation if the legislature deems it necessary, but under no circumstances can a Court of law direct the direction or outcome of the process. In fact, the Court cannot even influence the process by issuing an advisory opinion on matters which are outside the scope of its constitutional remit. 


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The Petitioners’ invitation to this Hon’ble Court to transgress the lines drawn by the doctrine of separation of powers is deeply disturbing for it could have disastrous consequences for the public’s respect for all institutions as well as the Constitution. Both constitutional morality and institutional independence would stand undermined if the Petitioners’ prayers were to be granted;


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v. The argument that consent alone matters and marriage changes nothing in this regard, is legally and practically baseless. The factum of marriage translates to serious obligations on the part of the partners, from conjugal expectations and rights to financial obligations, mental health obligations and finally duty towards the progeny. Considering this, to contend that the institution of marriage cannot form the basis of Exception 2 to Section 375 is to deny the obvious. Further, it is evident from the language of Section 375 and Section 376B that ‘will’ and ‘consent’ are related but not identical, which explains the reason behind the use of “without consent” in the latter provision. In a marital relationship, since conjugal expectations are a two-way street, partners may choose to accede to each other in matters of sex out of a variety of considerations, not all of which necessarily amount to cruelty. In such circumstances, ‘consent’ is given as a matter of spousal intimacy, although ‘will’ may be absent. If every such instance were to be treated as a cut-and-dried instance of “marital rape”, the only way partners in a marriage or spousal-like relationships can ever hope to have sex without the fear of accusations of rape is by drawing a detailed written agreement on the steps to be observed for courtship or mating, or by creating a detailed evidentiary record of every act of intimacy, or by inviting a third party to act as a witness, none of which is healthy for the survival of the institution of marriage. This would be the precise consequence of a blinkered approach to consent without context getting its due;


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In this regard, the Petitioners have relied on the judgment of QueenEmpress v. Kandhaia and Others 1884 SCC OnLine All 142 and S. Khushboo v. Kanniammal & Another (2010) 5 SCC 600 to argue in the context of Section 40 of the IPC that the IPC recognises only an offence which is synonymous with a prohibited ‘act’ and does not recognise a distinction based on the offender or the context. This reliance is entirely misplaced since the IPC contains several provisions whereunder the same ‘act’ committed by different dramatis personae takes a different shape or results in a different outcome. For instance, the starkest distinction based on the offender is the one that is struck between adults and juveniles, which equally extends to sexual offences. The said distinction is observed both from the perspective of the victim as well as from that of the accused. The existence of the POCSO Act despite provisions relating to sexual offences in the IPC is the clearest proof that the definition of offence under Section 40 of the IPC is not blind to context, relationship, age or any other valid consideration. Simply put, the Petitioners argument that its prayers merely seek enlargement of the class of offenders is baseless in light of the legislative reticence to use ‘rape’ in the context of spousal relationships. Accordingly, none of the case laws cited by the Petitioners which permits a Court to enlarge the class of offenders is applicable to the instant case. This also addresses the question of fair labelling of an offence since the Legislature has consciously avoided using “rape” in the context of a spousal relationship, not to protect the spouse, but those connected with them, namely the families and the products/issues of the marriage – the progeny;


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E. Conclusion 

21. In conclusion, it is reiterated that the Intervenor is not opposed to recognition of spousal sexual violence. Its limited position is that spousal sexual violence already stands criminalised, as discussed above, and therefore any grievances relating to the inadequacy of the same can be addressed only by the Legislature and not the Judiciary. This is because inadequacy or perceived inadequacy is a matter of legislative policy and not a ground for constitutional challenge. Further, it is the position of the Intervenor that it is possible to protect individual dignity and the marital institution without sacrificing one for the other. Finally, a gender-neutral approach to such issues would be consistent with calls for gender equity.


MRA TIKLOO
www.menwelfare.in
www.saveindianfamily.in
Men Helpline: 8882498498

Saturday, January 22, 2022

Rational Nexus - #MarriageStrike and #MaritalRape

#MarriageStrike which has been trending on twitter from last few days is not just a mere hash tag but voice of millions of men. It represents a vociferous message by men of India to power holders that if they are pushed to corner they would protest, may be in digital world first, but if push comes to shove they would resort to protest on streets. There is a larger message here to famous three pillars of democracy - legislature, judiciary and executive - STOP.

For far too long in the name of women’s rights, affirmative action, in the grab of "constitution is feminist" (infamously articulated by an SC Judge once) and for many more other reasons rights of men are being trampled. In the name of giving (doling out may be apt word here) rights to women through laws/provisions net effect is rights of men are being taken away which is nothing but a message of oppression. If opposite side (mostly feminists) argument is accepted that in history women were oppressed, is the solution to now make women as oppressor and men oppressed that too in twenty first century by putting historical perspective at the centre? Answer is clear "No" yet that is what exactly biased laws/provisions do. Men are being pushed to total submission and if history has any lesson for us it is the start of an end.


Rational nexus (emphasised) between #MarriageStrike trending and timing of #MaritalRape PIL being heard in Delhi High Court can not go unnoticed. Succinctly, put case of petitioner represented by infamous feminist lawyer (amongst Men’s Rights activists) is that a non-consensual sexual intercourse or sexual acts by a husband on wife must fall under the definition of section 375 of IPC i.e. should be categorised rape. And counter argument is that it may be an offence covered under Domestic Violence Act , 498A IPC, 377 IPC etc. but can not be categorised under section 375 definition. So more than anything respectfully put it is an ego of petitioner represented by highly egoist lawyer that is at stake here. As rightly stated by one of the Hon’ble Judges in bench hearing the matter that they are not sitting to find ways to make non-consensual sexual intercourse or sexual acts by husband on wife, if true, as rape and to call it rape there must not be intelligible differentia and rational nexus to the objective of carving out exception in section 375 which provides immunity to husband from being called rapist. 


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Exception 2.Sexual intercourse or sexual acts by a man with his own wife, the wife not being under eighteen years of age, is not rape


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According to this blogger exception just provides protection to husband from being called as rapist and no which way provides immunity from prosecution, for offence committed, under common law (IPC read with CrPC) when wife already got immunity from being called rapist based on “non-consensual” sex with husband in section 375 of IPC itself. In fact, to go further wife got additional protection and for non-consensual sex with husband she can not be prosecuted at all under any category of offences. Other way of looking at it is that under Article 14 of constitution which speaks of equality before the law for equals (not for unequals) , man and woman are equal partners to marriage, exception just provides protection to man being called rapist in the light of woman is already protected under section 375 of IPC from being called rapist.


To end this blog I would like to reproduce a tweet which was an answer to a question “What the hell is a #MarriageStrike?” from a vocal Bollywood personality. And answer to the question can’t be more apt. Hence #MarriageStrike must continue until #MaritalRape PIL is junked.




MRA TIKLOO

www.menwelfare.in

www.saveindianfamily.in

Men's Helpline: 8882498498